‘Your Child is Not Broken’ by Heidi Mavir

A Literally Ausome Book Review ‘Your Child is Not Broken’ by Heidi Mavir arrived last week. It arrived during what feels like week 1000 of the Summer holidays. Reading the title, I ironically managed to one-up it with a, ‘my child might not be broken, but fuck me, they’ve broken me’! BUT Yesterday I read…

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My ADHD A-HA Moment

I recently experienced a genuinely mind-blowing ADHD a-ha moment during a conversation. As a later-in-life diagnosed with ADHD adult (at 41 years of age) these thoughts & realisations occur any number of times per day. It’s as though I’m in a constant cycle of (only one example): ‘Hey, that happened. That was harder than I…

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Literally exploring Disability Inclusion in education

So the thing is & where life has led us….. I need a school. I’ve been saying for years now that ‘our high-masking Neurodiverse children need a school’. Now, I’ll admit I pushed it aside under the guise of schools convincing me that they could support my children & the thousands like them. I also…

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Embracing Disability

It’s a long one. You’ve been warned. The area of ‘disability’, what it means, what constitutes ‘disability’ & how I view my children in relation to the word ‘disability’ has been playing on my mind lately. I’ve not had the mental capacity (perhaps in need of capacity building supports!?) to fully process this & to…

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‘She Got on the Bus’

TW: Thoughts & feelings on parenting a high-masking Autistic teenager. This is MY lived experience. For those who have been following our journey, you know my mantra. ‘She got on the bus’. I first used this five years ago when my daughter went to her first school camp. A few weeks prior to camp, she…

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State of Grace

Ok, so here’s the thing. Australian of the Year 2021 recipient, Grace Tame didn’t smile for our PM yesterday. The criticism, the commentary, the opinions…. she sure caused a stir. Why? Well, because, she didn’t perform the way one ‘should’ perform for the PM. (I hate the term ‘should’ and there’s literally no better example…

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Literally, My ADHD Story

In August, I marked my three year ADHD diagnosis anniversary. I’ve posted my story before, but I’ve updated it & sharing it again to provide an insight into the long term side effects, emotional heartache & residual trauma of living a life with undiagnosed ADHD in the hope that any parent avoiding or dismissing the…

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The Emotional Toll
of ADHD

In addition to Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria – RSD & Reward Deficiency Syndrome – RDS, there are other significant emotional challenges & difficulties that are not shared or discussed, & as a result of its omission, is assumed that it’s either not an issue at all for us or that these traits, behaviours, actions &/or responses…

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Putting a feeling into words; Anticipatory Trauma.

[Disclaimer: The rules around things like this on social media focuses on ensuring that I respect my child’s privacy which I’ll do. I’m always worried I’ll offend my Autistic friends & or my biggest fear, be called abelist. Every time I write something like this, I need to make clear that this is about me…

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